A little over a month ago I embarked on a new journey. I was discussing fitness and diet with a friend, and he mentioned that he was a fan of the Paleo diet. Now... this is yet another in a long line of fad diets that have come along over the years, but I was actually able to jump onto this bandwagon with some great results. 

Where do we go from here? We've done the diet talk, we've done the mental health talk... we've done a lot of talking. I was trying to think of something to talk about here, something to make up for my lack of blogginess, and I actually realized that there was a reason I hadn't been blogging.

I was just talking with someone about the blog I wrote, and realized it'd been almost two years since I wrote a blog post! Two words: La - Zy.

We're going to start looking at some new approaches to a healthy life. Since the issues faced by returning vets is still a huge point of focus for me, the featured section above will continue to run posts pertaining to this very important issue...

Stand by!


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We've been talking about the "Beyond the Yellow Ribbon" Program for the last couple blogs. Today I'll finish up with discussing how this program benefits the family members of the soldiers that have served overseas.

The families of soldiers are welcome and encouraged to join them for each of the three sessions. While the soldiers are talking with each other and learning how to cope with reintegration, their family members get the very valuable opportunity to talk with other families going through the same process. Spouses have the chance to talk with others who have spent the last year(s) holding down the family while their loved one was away. They get the chance to talk with other people in their community and learn coping techniques, self awareness, and more.

It is important to remember that more than just the soldiers are affected by the stresses of combat. Their families often times sacrifice more than we can ever imagine. This is why it is extremely important to offer such "Support Group" programs that involve not only the returning soldiers, but their families as well.

If you or someone you know has a family member who has served or is serving overseas, check to see what your local government is doing to support returning troops and their families. The VA Homepage for returning veterans is a good place to start, but several states have initiated programs like "Beyond the Yellow Ribbon". Check with your local government to see what they offer, as national legislation has been passed creating programs based on Minnesota's model.

Today we're going to take a look at a program that my state has initiated for the service men and women returning from combat.

Beyond the Yellow Ribbon is a program that Minnesota has implemented and is now a requirement for all returning national guard soldiers. This program involves three day long classes, usually 30, 60, and 90 days after returning to civilian life.

Emphasis in the program is placed on the mental health of participants, many of whom carried out highly stressful missions in Iraq. National Guard officials here want to identify and help soldiers who may be showing some of the early signs of post-deployment anxiety or difficulty adjusting and coping at home.
These early signs include:

• Sudden frustration at mention of the war.
• A compulsive need for a clean, perfectly ordered house.
• Road rage.

Next we'll take a look at one of the most successful (and crucial) parts of the program, "Battle Buddies".

In the last blog I talked about the "Beyond the Yellow Ribbon" program that Minnesota has started for returning National Guard Soldiers.

Unlike the regular military, the reservists and National Guard are thrust directly back into civilian life after returning from deployment. There is no adjustment time, and there is very little exit training. Traditional military offers TAP (Transition Assistance Program) for service men and women leaving active duty. This program is shortened or non-existent for reservists.

Beyond the Yellow Ribbon offers this transition assistance in the form of anger counseling, grief management, and simple reminders of transitional issues, such as:
"Remember, grunting is not a form of communication".

This program also pairs soldiers with fellow veterans that have gone through the same program, and in turn allows them to talk with someone that has gone through the same battles they have.
Many times reservists return home and scatter to small towns across the state, often with no one to talk to or no one who understands what they have gone through.

A few years ago a company I was working for sent me to a management training class. It was an amazing class. In addition to teaching me how to improve my interactions with my employees and customers, it also made me take a look at myself. I had to define my management style, create a list of my core values, and write a plan for bettering myself as a person, all to realize my potential as a manager. And I got to watch FISH! again!

I recently came across the folder from that training, and the list of core values and goals I set for myself. Now, these weren’t short term goals, theses were lifetime goals. One of them stuck out …

Leave a legacy.

It’s something most people hope to do in their lives. Some people’s legacies are their children, or the work they do that changes a process, or how they touch other’s lives. What is my legacy going to be? It only seems natural:

Water.

Water has been a huge part of my life. As a child swimming every weekend in the great lakes, as a dive master in the Caribbean, on ships, hard hat diving in the gulf. I love water, and I’ve been lucky enough to have an abundance of it in my life…

But many people don’t. I’ve seen the devastation that is caused by a lack of water, women carrying water from wells miles away for their family, children sick from drinking tainted water. I can fix that. I can make a difference. I found out that $10 can give one person fresh water for 10 years. Really. But that’s not enough. I found this site thru change.org:

The Water project lets people help bring fresh water to schools in Africa and India. Each well services the school and surrounding community, and can bring fresh water to over a thousand people. And each well… well, it only costs $5,000. That’s right, $5,000 will give hundreds, if not a thousand, water for at least 10 years.

I’ve found my legacy, the pickle jar is already starting to fill up.

What’s yours going to be?

It’s a bright and sunny Sunday morning, mother’s day in fact. I’ve been up since 5:30 baking bread, marinating meat, and getting the grill ready for the family to stop by. Cup o’ coffee in hand, I sat down to watch some TV, when the Rottweiler came up and put her head on my knee.

If you have a dog, you know. Thru good times and bad, happiness and depression, and life in general, that dog is the one who keeps you grounded. I try every day to be the man my dog thinks I am.

Today I was out shopping for grocery bags, and I came across something that surprised me. The Target store that I was at didn’t offer any eco-friendly options for trash or sandwich/freezer bags. I ended up going to Wal-Mart, where they had several options including the 60% post consumer recycled trash bags, Ziploc Freezer bags made with 25% less plastic in a wind powered plant, and 100% recycled paper towels that I ended up purchasing. I thought that I’d share some of the manufacturers and retailers that offer products like this. If each of us were to make small changes in our daily routines like these, we’d be making a huge difference!

Webster Industries

Webster Industries offers many consumer and professional level options for eco-friendly disposal and storage bags including:

And more! Click any of the above logos to find out more…

The GoodSense line, as well as Glad’s 65% Recycled trash bags can be found at Wal-Mart.

Marcal Paper

Marcal makes the Small Steps line of paper towels, as well as many other products. They are made from 100% recycled paper, and without chlorine bleach or other additives. Click below to find out more:

Ziploc

The Ziploc® evolve™ line of freezer and storage bags are made with a special resin that uses 25% less plastic for each bag, and this is what they say about their commitment to using renewable energy in the plant that produces the evolve line:

The makers of Ziploc® brand products have partnered with a wind energy supplier to support renewable wind energy. Every year, Ziploc® purchases approximately 50% of the estimated energy involved in manufacturing Ziploc® evolve™ in the form of renewable energy to be put back on the electrical grid. Actual wind energy delivered could vary due to weather conditions, but is not anticipated to be any less than 45% of the Ziploc® evolve™ manufacturing facility's total energy

The Ziploc® evolve™ products can be found at:

Rainbow Foods, and other grocery stores. None of the Major Department stores list them on their websites yet.

Since it’s still Christmas weekend, and there’s still leftover pound cake and candy everywhere, we’ll hold off on the usual after holiday look at getting healthy for the new year a couple more days.

I’d like to use this post today to shift the focus of the blog to looking back, and looking forward. It’s the end of the year, and the end of the decade. Think of everything that happened this year, and in the last ten years. The good, the bad, and the “holy shit” ugly.

Tomorrow is a new day, and next week, well, it’s a new week, a new year, a new decade… a new beginning.

First we’ll look back…

It’s been a long while (again) since I’ve blogged…

insert a lame excuse here.

With that out of the way, I want to take a look at some ways at bettering your life, while doing the same for someone else. I recently joined a group called Soldiers’ Angels. This is a group of people all around the country that “Adopt” soldiers, sailors, Marines, and airmen deployed overseas in combat situations. They send weekly letters, in addition to care packages. The packages are simple: letter writing gear, laundry soap, hygiene gear, and so on. These letters and packages make a huge difference to those deployed. For example, here’s a letter from one of the soldiers deployed in Afghanistan:

 

A couple of weeks ago, I was at [a combat outpost] in [am Afghanistan Province].  Those Soldiers have been there for seven months and live in the most dire conditions. They do not have running water, fresh vegetables are rare, their gym is home-made and triples up as a sleeping area and dining hall. An old roommate of mine had not showered for 2.5 months when I saw him. The only bit of luxury at that COP has the Soldiers' Angels logo on it. The care packages you send are the only deviation from the Meals-Ready-to-Eat and one hot meal a day they get... and everyone there was so appreciative of it. All the care packages your team sends to us are forwarded to the field for my guys. Even if you may not hear back, please know you are making their day go by that much easier. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for everything.

Very simple acts of kindness make a huge difference to these soldiers, and to the people providing the help. I’ve mentioned may ways of helping servicemen and women after they return, but this is a way that you can help them while deployed. Check out Soldiers’ Angels, it’ll be worth the visit!

I’m going to start a series on healthy junk food. Really! You know I’m a big fan of Men’s Health, they do a ton of research and really put a lot into making fitness and healthy decisions easy to understand and live with. Their Abs Diet program includes books, a website, emails and tons of info on healthy eating and exercise. The “Eat this, not that” series gives you the good, bad, and ugly options of choosing what to eat in almost any situation, from the ballpark to your couch, or at any fast food or sit down restaurant in existence. Here’s a look at the latest info they are sharing about good and bad choices when it comes to burgers:

The burger industry in America is looking more and more like an arms race these days. Every few months, we watch in horror as another bacon-enhanced, cheese-embalmed, ranch-riddled weapon of mass inflation hits menu boards at the country's largest restaurant chains.

Each year Americans eat about 40 billion burgers, which means that each of us downs nearly 150 of them. Choose better burgers, and you can save 10 or 15 pounds over the course of a year.

To get you started on your own burger war, we've compiled a list of the seven greasiest patties ever to be sandwiched between two buns. But because we understand you still need your burger fix, we've thrown in five of our favorites that you can eat with relative impunity.

Here’s the list of good burger choices:

Burger Hall of Fame

With knowledge and discipline, you can eat all of your favorite foods-without ever being on a diet-and still lose weight! Here are five of the best burgers you can order.
DQ Original Burger
350 calories
14 g fat (7 g saturated)
680 mg sodium

Wendy's Quarter-Pound Single
430 calories
20 g fat (7 g saturated)
870 mg sodium

Burger King Whopper Jr. w/o mayo
370 calories
21 g fat (6 g saturated)
570 mg sodium

McDonald's Quarter Pounder
410 calories
19 g fat (7 g saturated)
730 mg sodium

In-N-Out Protein-Style Protein-Style Cheeseburger
330 calories
25 g fat (9 g saturated)
720 mg sodium

 

Now, for the bad choices that will just down right make you ugly:

 

Worst Burger: Chili's

Smokehouse Bacon Triple-The-Cheese Big Mouth Burger with Jalapeno Ranch Dressing
2,040 calories
150 g fat (53 g saturated)
110 g protein
4,900 mg sodium

 

Worst Burger: Dairy Queen

½ lb. FlameThrower GrillBurger
1,140 calories
82 g fat (27 g saturated, 1.5 g trans)
1,940 mg sodium

To read the entire article, visit their site here. Great info.. and you can sign up for emails or follow “Eat this, not that” on twitter!!!

I have talked before about how keeping healthy food in your home can make it much easier to make healthy choices when you eat at home. In this post we’ll look at some things that you can do to keep healthy choices close at hand.

The first big choice that you can make is in your beverages. Most of us have a refrigerator full of sodas, beer, and other not-so-good for you beverages. The biggest thing missing from the beverages in our fridge is the most simple: water. I have found that by keeping a gallon of water and a gallon of 2% milk in my fridge (and using a little restraint when I want something to drink) I have all but cut out sugary beverages from my diet. I will have about 2 12oz cans of Sprite a week at work, but that’s it for my soda intake. As for juices, a glass or Simply Orange or Simply apple once a day at most.

Click here for 9 great reasons to drink water, and how to form the water habit!!

Another choice you can make is in your lunchmeats and cheeses. Buying deli meats and cheeses (the kind they slice for you right there) tend to have far less sodium and preservatives than the pre packaged lunchmeats do. Also, when you compare serving size and quality, you aren’t really paying much more for the better meats and cheeses.

 

This is just a start, we’ll look at some more healthy choices for home soon!

I am going to start featuring a series or post in the top section of the blog. You can read the featured post or series by clicking on the read more link at the bottom of the preview. I will continue to write other new posts that will appear right below the featured story!

We hear this a lot in these times, usually talking about those we have lost in combat. The phrase is meant to keep the memory alive for those who gave their lives to spare those of others. But there are many more people who need to not be forgotten. Living people, who need help. People who are now dealing with one of the most difficult things that they will ever face... readjustment to civilian life.

In November 1994, Public Law 103-446 established the Center for Women Veterans in the Department of Veterans Affairs under the Office of the Secretary. The primary mission of the Center for Women Veterans is to review VA programs and services for women veterans, and assure that women veterans receive benefits and services on a par with male veterans, encounter no discrimination in their attempt to access them, and are treated with the respect, dignity, and understanding by VA service providers.

Women make up 15 percent of today’s armed forces. Almost 200,000 women have deployed to Iraq or Afghanistan, with tens of thousands deployed or stationed elsewhere around the globe. Women are the second fastest growing population of veterans, but the nation has provided few tangible services for them. Many women veterans receive inferior treatment at hospitals run by the Department of Veterans Affairs, or are marginalized by veterans service organizations.

We're going to swing back to one of my first topics for a moment. I recently read an article that talks of a long term study of military personnel that started just before the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. The data shows that combat exposure tripled the likelihood of PTSD in members of the Army and Air Force, and doubled the likelihood in Marines.

Let’s take a quick look at PTSD:

WHAT DEFINES PTSD?

There are two specific factors that must happen for a diagnosis of PTSD to be reached. First is having been in an extremely stressful situation, and secondly, having reacted to it with an intense emotional reaction. An "extremely stressful situation" is considered to be the likes of being in Auschwitz, Vietnam, Iraq, being raped, surviving a plane crash, being at ground zero on 9/11, and so on. The American Psychiatric Association classifies "Reacting with an intense emotional reaction" as fear, helplessness, or horror.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OF PTSD?

There are three different clusters of symptoms that characterize PTSD.

• Intrusive recollections
• Avoidant numbing symptoms
• Arousal Symptoms

We’ll talk more about these three symptoms in a future post.

With the large number of service men and women returning to civilian life, it is very likely that you may encounter someone suffering from PTSD in your everyday life. Also, employers must be ready for the reintegration of these men and women back into the workforce. This new data shows that there is an increased strain on the mental health of returning service men and women, and often times the military is unable to provide proper medicine, counseling, or even simple self awareness for the issue.

It is very important that we do everything we can to help our fighting men and women successfully return to civilian life. In the next couple of posts I'll be discussing some new initiatives for service men and women returning from combat.

I haven't sat down to write a blog in a while! Guess it's time to get back at it.

I originally started this blog on ChaCha's now defunct blog site as a healthy living blog, which had to be written to certain guidelines and containing certain phrases. Now that I have the liberty to talk about a little more, I plan on sharing a little more insight and some good ol' opinions.

Today I'd like to share something that I've been watching on Twitter. Ya' see, Trent Reznor of NIN has taken up a pretty worthy cause and brought it to his fans. Here's the story:

Eric De La Cruz resides in Nevada and is in dire need of a heart transplant. He is dying. His sister, Veronica, is doing all she can to help her brother. However, she is caught in the red-tape system in Nevada. He needs Medicare Disability. Eric has been turned down for a heart transplant list because he is on Nevada Medicaid, and there are no transplant centers in Nevada. He needs to go to California under the Medicare Disability program. He has been rejected twice and the next appeals hearing is one year from today. We cannot wait one year!

Eric has Severe Dilated Cardiomyopathy with an EF of 15%. His kidneys are having trouble because of his heart. His creatinine levels are high, his blood pressure is very low and he keeps retaining fluid. The diuretric-type meds the doctors have him on are no longer working...

Pretty big deal, huh. So here's what the gents of NIN decided to do: If you donate $1,000 to $1,200 to Eric thru NIN's website, you get a kick butt VIP package to any of their shows in the U.S., including dinner with the band, attending the sound check, and more.

Well, the fans stepped up and in the first day raised over $500,000 for Eric. Within a week they were over $800,000. Due to the response, they ran out of room for the VIP concerts. Now, Tony Hawk is helping out and they are offering limited packages of signed Tony Hawk skateboards, and hand numbered and signed rare NIN releases.

So, here's the deal. I don't have the money to help out, but I'm doing everything I can to get the word out. Eric needs a heart, so let's show him how much heart we have!

You can check out the website here, or follow @trent_reznor, or #eric on twitter, or at tweet4eric.com

Also, here's the link to the NIN store where you can get in on these great packages!!!


Watch this video about Eric:

Well, it's been over a month... and I'm pretty dang impressed. As I mentioned before, I decided to use the Men's Health Personal Trainer online service to kick my diet into gear. This program gives me daily workouts, as well as meal plans each day that do all the work for me.

The result? I started at 226 lbs, and this morning I weighed in at 209 lbs. That's 17 pounds lost in a month. Not bad at all! Plus, I have noticed a big change in my energy, and I'm starting to look dang good!

I'm going to continue on the program and will keep updating. I wanted to share a few things about the program that Men's Health online offers. First off, for the price (about $2.50 a week, and your first month is free) I think it is well worth the investment. There's no excuse for not being able to come up with a couple bucks a week for better health.

I will say that the system has limits and some flaws, and some bugs that they are working out. The shopping list is hard to understand, and can be overwhelming, and the work out plans can have glitches while switching between phases. The good thing is that customer support is very helpful, and there are many forums to discuss questions with coaches and other participants.

My suggestion, do it. You have to make some concessions... I have completely cut soda and coffee out of my diet (no caffeine at all)... but you do get a day off each week to eat what you want. The exercises are not at all overwhelming, and even someone new to the gym or working out at home will do well!